What is the meaning of "relax" in T'ai-chi? Here is an example to help you understand the word. When we go visit a Buddhist temple we usually see a statue of Me-Lo Buddha. The one who has a big rounded stomach with a big smile on his face. He carries a large bag on his shoulder. On top of this statue we see a motto: "Sit with a bag. Walk with a bag. It would be such a relief to drop the bag." What does all this mean? To me, a person himself or herself is a bag. Everything he or she owns is baggage, including one's children, family, position and wealth. It is difficult to drop any of one's baggage, especially the "self" bag.
T'ai-chi Chuan is difficult to learn. To relax in practicing T'ai-chi Chuan is the most difficult phase to go through. To relax a person's mind is the most significant obstacle to overcome in practicing T'ai-Chi. It takes a great effort to train and exercise one's mind to relax (or drop one's "self" bag).
(Attempted translation by Celia Chen, July 1992)
Ed's note: A student gave this to me. I have long lost touch with her. I do not know the source. If anyone does, please e-mail me with the information.